Work lunches and dinners are normal; it's something that is done amongst companies to team build and bond. One-on-one meals are also normal; they're a way to celebrate successes and discuss growth. So, what happened with this user? This user and her husband had been planning a trip to a particular restaurant for some time. His boss brought up the idea of going to this specific restaurant, and he agreed. This left a bad taste in the original poster's mouth. The plot thickens, though.

OP mentioned that her husband's boss is female, widowed and seemingly very enthusiastic about spending time with her husband, and that asking an employee to lunch is out of character for her. The poster is asking for advice and feedback on whether or not she has the right to be upset about this supper or not. The comments are somewhat split. Some are questioning what she is truly upset about, others are agreeing with her that the whole thing is strange. Is this a case of jealousy of the restaurant? Or jealousy of the boss?

Keep reading to see the whole story, along with relevant comments and an update from the poster that could change some minds.